Wednesday, 28 December 2011

time no enough

'Money no enough' is a Singaporean movie.

For me, it will be 'Time no enough'.

Time flies, in a matter of days, it will be the end of year 2011. =/

I sincerely hope that 2012 will be a great year for me.

Thursday, 24 November 2011

Selamat Hari Jadi

Chris messaged us two weeks ago informing us of her intention to celebrate her birthday with us at WIP Bangsar. She had decided to have lunch with us as she would like to have dinner with her boyfriend. Time is of the essence for her considering the fact that she works in Singapore and have limited days in Malaysia.

Lunch we go on a hot Saturday evening. According to her it has been raining a lot lately in Singapore and she has been deprived of sunshine! Therefore she insists that we sit outside in order to get the rays! T.T

Tell you, it was scorching hot when Anne and I arrived at WIP!! I was literally melting... like an ice cube..

Well, its her birthday and she ets to decide what she wants right! So, in order to make myself feel cooler, I ordered a pint of beer since people always say beer can cool you down on a sunny day!

Happy birthday Chrissy!! ;)

Thanks for the lunch!! ;)

Muahhhhhh! ;)

I seriously thought that we are gonna have indoor lunch and so I put on my jacket before I left home. When I arrived at WIP, its removed from my body and being placed on my lap to shelter my shabby thighs!!

The chios!

Happy birthday again! Muahhhh

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Wednesday, 23 November 2011

Auntie Lily

I have to admit that I'm aging.. Kids beginning to address me as auntie and waitresses in mamak begins to call me 'Kak'! ;(

An auntie who's young at heart!

Hello Kittys craze!! I have yet to obtain my Hello Kitty Card from HL Bank.. ;(

Congratulations to myself! I have been called to the bar and I'm now officially an Advocate & Solicitor of High Court of Malaya!

Thank you to all who have attended my big day!

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Friday, 18 November 2011


I'm unhappy.

So stressed up that I think I nearly choked myself to death. I couldn't breathe.

I'm quite upset at the same time.

My long call didn't go smoothly as I thought. Well, that does not kill you, will make you stronger. What is the meaning of "appreciation"? I do not know anymore.

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Thursday, 17 November 2011


Yo! With love from KK!

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Saturday, 12 November 2011


Hello from Penang!

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Tuesday, 8 November 2011


Am addicted to Monopoly Deal.

I find this game rather challenging, whereby you have to crack your head thinking how to defend your properties being slied away and at the same time have to be financially stable with sufficient "cash" in your bank.


This is the Zhu face.

Similar?? Hahaha..

Good night peeps! Muahhhh.

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Tuesday, 1 November 2011

Daddys Foot

Yay!!! Daddys foot has recovered! The ulcers are gone!!! Happy happy!

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Monday, 31 October 2011

New Kitty

I received a new kitty casing from K!


Soo excited about it! Anyway thank you very much again, so thoughtful of you.

My car's mileage!! Cool leh "111111".

Today is a happy day. ;) good night!

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Sunday, 23 October 2011

Low IQ

I wanted to eat the Eu Yan Sang Bak Foong pill today, I tried countless times to rip open the plastic that seals the bottle cap but couldn't.

So i seeked help from my mother .

"Mi help me to open please."

She was watching TV when I approached her and she lifted her head and asked "What?"

Again I repeated my request and she took the bottle from me. After a few failed attempts, she took out a pair of small scissors and snipped it open and successfully removed the plastic seal.

And said to me in cantonese which literally means "See so lousy, no IQ one. Mama the stupidest in family also can remove.."


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Thursday, 20 October 2011


I'm now a self professed druggie!

Currently I consume a tablet of drug daily.

Its called Roaccutane prescribed by my dermatologist to cure my acne problem.

I have always been the unlucky ones to contract acne "disease" all my life. When I first had acne problem, I spent thousands on cosmetics, it didn't cure my disease. Later I resorted to contraceptive pill, voila it was awesome, instant cures in months, but the consequences - weight gain and recurrence once you stop the pills.

Finally Ive decided to consult skin specialist. I was on some antibiotic, and it really did cure the acne on my face!

Sadly, acne is appearing on my back now. Consulted the doctor and he has finally decided to prescribe the strongest medication which is a drug called Roaccutane. Apparently its derived from Vitamin A and it helps to restructure your oil glands and kills the bacteria contained in the glands. With smaller oil gland, chances of your pores enlarging is minimal, thus reducing the formation of acne.

Chances of cure is 98% as compared to the previous 70% chances. But it is very costly, three times the price I used to pay.

Most common side effects associated to the use of drug - dryness of skin and lips, depression, itchiness, dry eyes, sensitive skin, migraine, poor night vision.

I could feel the effects kicking in, lips are cracking and the skin on my palm is peeling. And, I think Im suffering from depression now..

Gawd.. Desperado me.

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Tuesday, 18 October 2011

Pasar Malam

If I could remember correctly, the last I stepped into Pasar Malam was beginning of this year.

Yesterday JC asked if I would like to join her for PM session because she had promised her mom that she would buy some fishes and vegetables back.

I agreed as both my parents were away from home and I had no food to eat for dinner.

When I was about to leave home, it started "tumpah kucing dan anjing".. so JC texted saying theres change of plan, we will be heading to Mentari for steamboat with Nancy.

Tried the "ma lat" buffet steamboat and I kinda fell in love with the soup. Only the soup because the seafood was not fresh.. :(

Later it stopped pouring and JC again insisted that she has to go to PM to get the fishes for her mom.

And so to PM we go. We arrived at 10 pm and I could see some were already busy packing up their goods to their vehicles. Oh oh... we need to find fishhhhhh!!! Time is running out..

There! Fishyyy!!! Hahaha

The guy offered two plates of kampung fishes for RM15 and we were soo excited thinking we managed to secure a cheap bargain!! O.o

So when I reached home I happily ran up to my mom's room and told her I bought back BIGGG packet of kampung fishes for her. I even told her about the cheap bargain.

Mom went down to check on the fishes, apparently you have to clean it well before its being stuffed into the freezer to prevent the fishy smell (can someone enlighten me as to a proper word used to describe fishy smell?)

The freezer door was opened, and I pointed the packet of fishes to her. She removed it and brought it to the sink, poured it out and exclaimed "HARR this is your so called BIGGG packet?"

She laughed and said in cantonese "Silly girl you have been tricked, usually it will only be sold at RM 6 per plate."

T____T mehhhhhh it feels like Ive been thrown down from the highest floor. Lol. Haolian some more la..

Fine, I shall haolian about other stuff.. my new Hello Kitty casing from PM!! Yayyyyy happy happy and its only RM20!

This is auntie JC busy choosing her veges whilst Im busy choosing Iphone casing. Lol.

Then we noticed a stall which sells cheap hair clips, 3 for RM10!!

Whoaas cheap cheap, I took 2 and JC took one.

Tadaaaa, butterfly bling bling clip!

Pig pig Chu!!!! ;)

I just love PM, I think the next time I shall buy my clothes and lingerie from PM! Muahahaha, i bet no one would notice. *wink*

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Friday, 14 October 2011


Two days ago, colleagues and I had lunch at Sushi King, Putrajaya. We had to sit outside due to non-availability of seats inside.

Suddenly, we were approached by a man clad in black suit with the name tag "Husni".

He greeted us "Hi", and we stared at him blankly as if he was some lunatic freak released from detention centre.

HT replied "Hi".

"Tak panas ke duduk kat luar?"

I replied with a smile "Panas, tapi dalam takde tempat nak duduk."

"Oh... kamu semua daripada Jabatan mana?"

All of us paused for a moment, fearing that he is some disciplinary officer on duty to check on government officers who failed to comply with the permissible lunch time duration. In hesitation, HT replied "AGs Chambers".

"Oh, AGs Chambers tu, akauntaun ke apa?"

HT replied "Attorney General.."

"Aaaa I see, I'm from the Ministry of Finance, and I do liase with your department when it comes to drafting of new laws!"

All of just nodded.

Later, I think he could sense the reluctance in us to chat and decided to leave us alone.

"By the way, I'm the Second Finance Minister." And he left.

I said "Nice to meet you Tuan."


SECOND MINISTER OF FINANCE? Lol, which means he is just one rank below our Prime Minister. All of us began to pick up our smart phone and started googling.

And, its true. He's actually Dato' Seri Ahmad Husni. That explains the tag "Husni".

HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAH there we treated him like a lunatic trying to harass us. -____-

Wednesday, 12 October 2011

Monday, 10 October 2011


Attended the soft launch of Blackball Dessert Shop with the girls.

The girls portraying their anti social behaviour..

Apparently its everyone's favourite in Taiwan. Hmm well, not exactly mine to be frank. Just not my "cup of dessert".

Later we went for Daorae BBQ in Taipan! Ahhhh and yeaaa this is my "cup of food". Kekekekek

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Friday, 7 October 2011


Budget 2012 announced that Government servant will get a pay rise ranging from RM80-320. Oh well, at least better than nothing! Hehehehe

I received new books again! Happy happy! Weeeee

Its Friday!! Time to enjoy and relax, works will be shoved aside.

Party time!!!!

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Wednesday, 5 October 2011

Haunted ByThe Past

I know everyone has been telling me to forget by the past..

But I couldn't..

Images are playing back and forth in my brain, just like a slideshow..

Pictures paint a thousand words. There are so many assumptions that you can deduce from a picture. Thats why at times I hate myself for having photographic memory. Pictures leave a huge impact on me. Its like a scar in my brain..

And now old pictures are slowly emerging in my head.

I can't let go of the past.. Im full of hatred now..

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Tuesday, 4 October 2011

Sunday, 2 October 2011


Today is 2nd of October. A date to remember.

A picture that I will not forget. Ive found out that a picture is worth more than me.

I'm dispensable.

Thats how cheap I am. ;)

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Tuesday, 27 September 2011

20 ways to get intimacy back in your relationship

Found this interesting article on MSN Life & Style.

Keep asking questions

Couples therapists agree that a failure to communicate is at the root of many relationship problems. If you talk with your partner but the conversation is usually about the kids, money, or the fact the dog was sick that morning, it's time to refocus.

Pillow talk

There is something magical about the whispered conversations we have in bed. Lying together under the covers lends itself to intimacy. If you do nothing else, change your routine so that you spend some quality time between the sheets together, even if it's just to talk.

That means banning the TV and the kids from the room and making sure you go to bed at the same time - if only for a few nights of the week. With emotional intimacy re-established, you're likely to find sexual intimacy improves too.

Give a compliment

It's easy to criticise and complain but too much negativity will erode even the strongest of relationships. Studies show that it takes seven positive comments to balance out a negative one - so start spreading the love!

Everyone likes to feel noticed and appreciated and an unexpected (but heartfelt) compliment can go a long way. Does he have great arms? Do you love the way she giggles? Focusing on the positive helps build rapport and create a trusting space for intimacy to grow.

The power of touch

Good communication isn't just about talking. A hug at the end of a hard day or a reassuring squeeze of the hand can mean so much. If you find you rarely touch your partner, it's worth getting back into the habit.

Make a conscious effort to hold hands when you go out, whether in the street or a restaurant. If sex has been off the agenda for some time, small touches can help re-open the door to physical intimacy.

Remember to kiss

Research shows that couples who kiss every day are more likely to stay together. In some ways, kissing is more intimate than sex (remember Julia Roberts and her no kissing rule in Pretty Woman?).

Relationship therapists report that couples often stop kissing before they stop having sex. If your partner is lucky to get a peck on the cheek, surprise them with a full on smooch next time they walk through the door.

Water sports

Many couples find they lose some of the intimacy they once enjoyed after starting a family. In the post-pregnancy days that can be down to tiredness, adjusting to new roles or feeling less attractive. As the children grow, it can simply be a case of not having any privacy!

If you can't keep the kids out of your bed, consider locking the door and taking a shower together each morning or take a long hot soak in the bath once they're asleep. Good clean fun or the potential to get dirty - it's up to you.

Try something new today

Most relationships hit the 'stuck in a rut' stage at some point. The adrenaline-fuelled rush of those early days can feel like a lifetime ago but that doesn't mean you can't get some of the excitement back.

Escape your daily routine and do something new: learn to salsa, book a hot air balloon ride, take an acting class together, anything that gets you out of your comfort zone. A shared new experience will bring you together - and give you something new to talk about, if nothing else!

Scare yourself silly

Talking of an adrenaline-fuelled rush... pick an activity that's exhilarating for your day out and you could very well get the blood pumping in your relationship too.

When we do something scary the body releases a huge surge of adrenaline, which mimics the hormones we experience when we fall in love. A rollercoaster ride, sky diving, car racing or watching a scary movie together will leave you breathless and ready for even more excitement.

Get away from it all

Even strong relationships can stagnate if you don't look for new ways to explore and enjoy each other's company. The fastest way to kick start things is to take a break from everyday life. Visit a foreign country and experience new cultures and you're likely to learn things about each other too.

Can't afford a foreign holiday? Go camping instead. Fresh air, sunshine and getting back to nature will leave you feeling refreshed and new - plus, the kids will love it.Surprise one another

Most of us accept that it's natural for a relationship to change over time (research suggests the initial excitement stage lasts for 18 months) but that's no reason to let things get stale.

Surprise one another

Most of us accept that it's natural for a relationship to change over time (research suggests the initial excitement stage lasts for 18 months) but that's no reason to let things get stale.

Surprise your partner with tickets to an event you know they'll love - and hide them somewhere unexpected for extra fun. If money is tight, blindfold them and drive out to a remote beauty spot for a romantic picnic. Spontaneity and surprise are natural aphrodisiacs, so who knows, you might be using that blindfold again before the end of the night.

Rekindle old passions

What was it that used to make you feel alive? Rekindle the passions and interests you had when you were single - only this time enjoy them together as a couple.

Take it in turns to suggest an activity and agree beforehand that you will both make an effort to participate and be positive. It might mean you agree to see modern dance one weekend in exchange for going potholing the next. With any luck, you will rekindle the passion for each other as well as rediscovering an old hobby.

Friends reunited

Remember when you used to share a joke over a glass of wine, talk for hours on the phone and agree on almost everything? You were friends (as well as lovers) once, so try to remember what it was you liked about your partner in the first place.

Retrace your steps and enjoy some much-needed fun and you'll soon be on the road to sharing a deeper intimacy together.

Location, location, location

Okay, so you didn't expect the passion to last but whips, handcuffs and dressing up? You don't need to invest in a wardrobe of kinky outfits and toys (though of course, that's fine too) in order to put the spark back.

A few small changes can make a big difference. If you always have sex at the same time and the same place, try a different location. The kitchen table or on the stairs - next time the mood takes you, go for it there and then, rather than always going up to the bedroom.

Back to the start

Few couples, married or not, continue the adventurous, any time, anywhere sex they enjoyed at the start. Once the sexual intimacy has gone from a relationship, it can be hard to regain it - but certainly not impossible. After all, there's a good chance your partner feels the same way about it as you.

Take time to get to know one another again. Retrace your steps - wine and dine them, make them laugh, send them flirty messages. Don't presume you know what they like in bed either, tastes and desires can change. Ask, explore and enjoy - just take it slow.

Don't judge a book

Remember the days when you read aloud to one another? There's something wonderfully intimate about reading and being read to - whether in bed, lazing on a rowboat or relaxing on a picnic blanket.

Instead of reading different books at night, read your favourite novel to each other. If you want to spice things up, choose an erotic title or give your partner a book to read which contains things you'd like to try. This can be a great way to share your fantasies if you feel shy talking about them. You'd be amazed what you can buy on Amazon these days!

Play with each other

At the end of a long day sometimes you just want to slump in front of the TV. There's nothing wrong with that - but staring at a screen isn't likely to create intimacy, unless you're cuddled up watching a romantic movie!

Choose a night of the week to turn the TV off and do something else. Chess, cards or board games can all be fun. (The kids will love it, even if they moan at first.) Of course, when they've gone to bed, you might even like to play a naughty game.

Have a laugh

We've all heard how 'laughter is the best medicine' - and it's true for our relationships, as well as our health. When we laugh the body releases endorphins into the bloodstream including serotonin, nature's anti-depressant, which makes us feel good.

Laughter also has the power to strengthen the emotional bonds between people. Tickle each other, book tickets to see a stand-up comedian or learn clowning skills for the day - anything that makes you giggle will bring you closer together.

Pamper makes perfect

Who doesn't like to be pampered now and then? There's more to the power of touch than you might realise. Studies show that human physical contact has the power to relieve anxiety, decrease blood pressure and strengthen the immune system.

Touch that's given by a loving partner can be even more powerful. If your relationship is lacking sexual intimacy, take it in turns to pamper one another (wash their hair or give them a shoulder or foot rub), without any pressure to have sex. A loving touch is one of the most precious gifts you can give - and it costs nothing.

Date night

It may feel contrived to schedule sex into your calendar but if you want to enjoy more intimacy in your relationship, sometimes you have to make it happen. Just as you might book a babysitter for a 'date night', arrange for family to take the kids off your hands for an evening or an afternoon.

Even better, book a night at a hotel. Anticipation is a great aphrodisiac, and seeing a special night written into the calendar will give you both something to look forward to.

Clear the air

A lack of intimacy (whether emotional or physical) can often signal other problems in a relationship. If you feel anger or resentment towards your partner you will first need to take steps to resolve the situation - ignoring how you really feel to keep the status quo will only damage your relationship in the long run.

Choose a quiet moment, speak honestly and lovingly (not when you're already angry) and be willing to take your share of the blame. It you haven't been honest with one another for years, a counsellor can help give you the support you need to work things through.

I totally agree with everything of the above! Except for the sharing book part. LOL.